Selfishness and bad attitude
There are few more difficult members to have in a team than those who have their own hidden agendas. The selfish footballer who wants to score the goal when he should have passed the ball, or the cricket batsman who is more interested in his seasonal average than the welfare of the team, are each nightmares to the captain. Indeed, it is sometimes necessary to change the team selection to remove such a person.
In Christian circles, too, that attitude can sometimes be present. The flesh in some people seeks after ‘glory’ and ‘profile’. Such people are not good team players.
Bad attitude represents a powerful force for destruction and Paul addresses the subject head on in Phil 2:3-8. He shows how Jesus’ attitude was exemplary and was a model for us. It is interesting to note, however, that, with the correct attitude, the Father is pleased with him and Jesus rightly gets the glory and profile in vv 9, 10 without seeking it. But I am running ahead of myself.
No selfishness or empty conceit
Selfishness opposes the ethos of team. As we have seen, a successful team is a group of people who work together to achieve a common aim. Any individual member who is ‘in it for his own good’ will be inconsiderate of the welfare of others and of the team as a whole. Competitiveness and selfishness tend to lead to disloyalty as they put self-interest and self-opinion above the activity and ethos of the team. For the team leader such attitudes among members build insecurity that the team will not truly represent him and his values.
Empty conceit is also an undermining characteristic. It implies that one individual sees himself as in some way superior to the other team members; that he can carry out a task better than others; that all good ideas have started with him. This, too, erodes a positive team spirit and constructive working together. Worse, it can be a threat if this individual is seen as trying to ‘take over’ from or undermine the leader.
Selfishness and empty conceit are character issues. They have nothing to do with the purpose of the team. If allowed to continue unchecked they will seriously affect the way in which the team operates and the accomplishment of the purposes for which it exists.
Humility
Phil 2:3b gives the antidote - humility. One who is truly humble is able to make a sober assessment of his strengths and weaknesses and find his approval in God. It is not necessary to project himself before men. To be humble is not to be weak - indeed, it requires strength of character not to defend oneself sometimes when unfair accusation or character slur is spoken against you. But humility brings an atmosphere of peace in a team, allowing each member to function to the best of his or her ability recognising that no one member can ‘do it all’ - each needs the others. But it can take humility to allow this to happen, especially if one or two team members are particularly gifted and able.
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Recently I had the pleasure of Inder Pawar coming to visit me. Inder is at the core of what is going on among Newfrontiers churches in India being lead elder of Grace Church, Nassik, heading up the training initiatives for Newfrontiers in India, chair of the Management Team of the FMC in Bangalore and also serving the local churches on behalf of Guy Miller.
I took the opportunity of interviewing him. I think you will enjoy the update.
The map shows some of the places he refers to.
Inder also mentions the Karuna Ministry to leprosy sufferers in Mumbai and the HIV/AIDS Ministry in Mumbai. The links will give you more detail.
Please pray for India at this very exciting time.
Tags: Church Planting
I have ben using Phil 2:1 to look at some of the features which create a positive environment in which a team can work. We shall now look at the characteristics and attitudes of the team itself through the next few verses.
Complete joy
As a team leader on many occasions and in many situations I can happily echo Paul’s words to the Philippians ‘complete my joy…’ How is this achieved? Through ‘being of the same mind, having the same love, being in full accord and of one mind’ (Phil 2:2b).
Unity
Unity of a team is a vital ingredient to success. But to achieve that unity takes time and effort. It does not just happen. Once the team is selected there needs to be an intentional ‘team building’ to ensure that everyone is supportive of the goals and purposes, and that everyone contributes his or her unique skills and character qualities to the good of the team.
At the end of last year I had the sad responsibility for closing down the Newfrontiers office in Hove, an office that had functioned for over 30 years. This involved closing some areas of activity, handing over responsibility for others to different people in the UK, and supporting all the staff who were either facing retirement or needing to find new jobs. Having worked together for many years (in two cases a quarter of a century!) I knew the team well and over the years we had learned how to support and ‘fill in’ for one another where the need arose.
Early in the year I gathered the team and we all agreed that we were going to close the office well. To achieve this we planned how we would do it, who was responsible for what area or function, and the timescale for particular activities, remembering that we had to continue to handle our responsibilities efficiently until each was handed over to someone else in another office.
I believe we achieved our goal. There were inevitably times of sadness and reflection but on these occasions we would share our hearts. We would sometimes stop and pray together. We also built in some fun activities to lighten the weight of what we were having to face.
Unity of mind, love and purpose
The unity that was expressed and the way in which each team member looked unselfishly to support the other members filled me with a huge sense of privilege that I served with such a team. I believe it truly reflected what Paul was trying to communicate, about ‘being of the same mind, having the same love, being in full accord…’ and ‘being intent on one purpose‘ (NASB).
Next time we will look at some of the personal attitudes that we need to be aware of as members of a team.
The atmosphere and ethos in which a team operates are important for success. Here I continue to look at some of the characteristics of a positive environment based Phil 2:1.
Love
The ability to encourage comes from a root of love. God is love - what better reason for being able to love one another? Indeed, we have no option - it is a command of Jesus: ‘love one another as I have loved you’ (Jn 13:34). His love was demonstrated so vividly in being prepared even to die for us that our relationship with God the Father might be restored.
Love does not equate with ‘like’. It is inevitable that we do not like all people with the same intensity - we might even dislike some! Love is different. We may not like all men but we can love them, even our enemies (Matt 5:44). Even in a team we may not like all the other members, but for the ’sake of the higher good’ we can still love them.
Fellowship
This is a strange word. I once heard it described as two fellows in one ship - they have to get on and work together if the boat is not going to capsize! More seriously, koinonia (Gk - community, joint participation, communion, sharing and intimacy) is at the heart of the early church where people went from house to house daily, ‘continually devoting themselves to the apostles’ teaching and to fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer’ (Acts 2:42). They also shared their possessions freely (Acts 4:32). Such an expectation of relationship is a strong basis on which to build a team.
Affection
You have to like someone to be affectionate! Here emotions are being expressed with the accompanying transparency and vulnerability. So in this word are hidden qualities such as trust and unselfishness, good marks of a mature team.
Compassion
Although the ESV translates this word ’sympathy’ I prefer the word ‘compassion’, as translated elsewhere. Closely allied with mercy, compassion speaks of an unselfishness that wants to empathise with someone in need. It is possible to minister to someone out of ‘professionalism’ ie from a skill base. But ministry that comes with compassion is not just about getting help for someone but it includes standing alongside them like a stake beside a vulnerable sapling that is being battered by the storms of life. Compassion gets ‘under the surface’ to the heart of an individual. In the context of a team it allows the members to look out for one another’s welfare - in other words to be together as one.
Next time we will look at some of the practical ways in which team members can ‘look out for one another’, giving support and encouragement.
When did it start?
In November 2010 I was contacted by Edward Buria with a plea for help. Drought had once again hit Kenya and the Horn of Africa. In Kenya alone 5 million people were threatened with starvation. Could Newfrontiers churches raise some funds for food and water?
Following an appeal, £260,000 has so far been raised to help alleviate the problem.
Recent visit
Recently I travelled with John Buria, Edward’s brother, and his relief team into Turkana and Samburu to see what the situation is currently like and to learn about the intervention the Newfrontiers churches have brought over the last 15 months.
After a long hot journey (temperatures around 40 degrees) we reached a remote location west of Lake Turkana, 17 hours by road from the Newfrontiers base in Meru - but we flew! This was my first visit. Following a television broadcast in August Edward (who oversees the Newfrontiers churches in Kenya) had received a request from Turkana to ‘come over and help’. He has been praying for Turkana for many years and saw this as the opening he had been waiting for.
We found a desperately needy people living on the edge of starvation. They relied on hand-outs from the team. Rains had come recently so water was no longer a problem, but crops had not yet grown; indeed some of the seed had been washed out of the ground when the rain was too heavy.
We also visited a camp for Internally Displaced People. They have lived there, dependent on hand-outs, since the post election riots of 2007/8.
Next we travelled to Samburu, an area I have visited many times. I was delighted to see a sand dam had been built. This traps the water as it rushes down the river for perhaps one week during the torrential rains, when they do come. Usually this precious water is lost into the sand. Now it is stored in a bed of sand (which reduces evaporation and filters the water) and will provide a source of water during the prolonged dry seasons.
Below is a video. Do take time to watch it.
On-going need
The crisis is far from over. Food is still needed and dams have yet to be finished. About £150,000 are still needed.
If you wish to make a donation you can give online through the Newfrontiers website or send a cheque (payable to Newfrontiers and marked Kenya Crisis) to:
The Finance team
Newfrontiers
The Matrix Complex,
91 Peterborough Road,
London, SW6 3BU
UK
My last posting on Teams was last year, at the end of November. Since then I posted a series of ‘one off’ blogs and also took a Christmas break. Now I would like to return to this series on ‘Teams that work’. But first I would like to talk about books.
I was greatly encouraged recently to be told from different sources how helpful my book The Poor deserve the Best is proving to be. I am aware that it is difficult to obtain this book at present as the Newfrontiers Resources are being reorganised and not taking orders at present. So if you do not yet have a copy (or of the accompanying publication Embracing the Poor, which is also available on Amazon) I would be very pleased to fulfil an order. Just write to me at the email address in the side panel.
Teams
Now back to the series on Teams. Since September 15th I have been working through a mnemonic of TEAM - backwards! So far we have looked at:
Mission - what are we trying to accomplish?
Achieve - are we hitting our goals?
Equipped - what skills and gifts are needed or represented on the Team?
Now we come to the ‘T’ - Together.
Working Together
In the sporting world, where success is everything, winning teams are those that work together. To help us look at this topic in the context of teams working together in the church I want to explore the second chapter of Paul’s letter to the Philippians where he exhorts the church to be more like Christ.
In Phil 2:1 we find assumptions being made by Paul, although he expresses them conditionally; ‘if’. He clearly has the expectation that to Be like Christ (the heading to this section in my Bible) there should be plenty of Encouragement, Love, Fellowship, Affection and Compassion. These words define excellent characteristics of the atmosphere in which we would all like to be ministering, whether working together on some project or leading a church on its kingdom-advancing mission.
Encouragement
We all like to hear ‘well done’. In the parable of the talents (Matt 25:14-30) the master commends the servants who multiplied their talents and rewarded them with further responsibility and opportunity for investment. He did not just look at a balance sheet and comment on the ‘fiscal growth rate’. He recognised the need to affirm the person.
Let us be generous in our encouragement. But to make someone ‘glow inside’ is not a technique. Any good leader will look for the things that an individual is doing and bring genuine encouragement. Encouraging a team member in this way not only boosts his or her self-confidence and sense of personal worth but it also strengthens a team and makes it more effective. Any correction that may be necessary should be given only once the bridge of encouragement has been strongly established. The person then knows you have his or her best interests at heart.
Next time we will look at the other four characteristics which make up the atmosphere in which a team operates: Love, Fellowship, Affection and Compassion.
This is my first posting since before Christmas. I hope you had a good break and were able to celebrate the coming of Jesus to Earth for our sakes. Also, that you have entered the New Year full of hope and expectation!
The past month
There have been two significant events in my life in the last month. First, the Newfrontiers office in Hove closed just before Christmas. All enquiries should now be referred to David Devenish’s office in Bedford (ddoffice@swissmail.org). Second, I have just returned from Kenya.
I was there to monitor what is happening through Newfrontiers churches to assist with alleviation of shortages of food and water caused by the long drought they have been experiencing over the last 12 months. They are doing well but I heard many heart-rending stories and will report more fully in due course. However, there is still a desperate need. Rains came a few weeks ago but were so heavy that many of the crops which had been planted were washed out of the ground. Also, those crops that are growing now need further rain which is lacking. If your church has not made a contribution to the Newfrontiers crisis fund for Kenya could I urge you to consider doing so (address below)?
Can I help you?
The last month has also been a month of reflection for me. What does my future hold? I feel that God is saying that in my ‘retirement’ I should continue to be involved with those who are poor or disadvantaged, and that I should also help with ‘capacity building’ (training and empowerment). With this in mind I would love to be able to help churches with their ministries with the poor. For instance, the Ministry Health Check I have developed to help churches assess their ministries and raise the standard of ‘good practice’ is proving invaluable. I would be very pleased to facilitate this process with churches.
Resistance Fighter
In April I recommended Susie Howe’s excellent book Resistance Fighter. I know that many have read it as a result. I am delighted to say it has now been nominated for the UK Christian Book Awards. I would encourage you to vote for this.
The future
I will now be returning to posting blogs on a weekly basis and the next ones will include a report on the Kenya situation and also the conclusion to my series on Teams. I hope they will be a blessing to you and contribute to advancing the Kingdom in our generation!
Address for contributions to the Kenya Crisis Fund:
You can donate online at Virgin Giving or cheques can be sent, payable to Newfrontiers and marked Kenya Crisis Fund, to:
The Finance Team
Newfrontiers
The Matrix Complex
91 Peterborough Road
London, SW6 3BU
Well, more in fact - but I liked the rhyme!
I have decided to postpone the rest of my series on team building until the New Year. Why? On Friday December 16th the Newfrontiers office will finally close after over 30 years so it seems appropriate for this blog to explain what is happening.
With Terry Virgo moving to London (Surbiton), and the whole of Newfrontiers being redefined for expansion and a new season, the need for an office in Hove is no longer there. So the wonderful team I have had the privilege of leading is being disbanded. And that is where the 100 comes in. In fact they have served for over 100 years - and that does not include Terry himself! What a record and what a joy it has been to work with such committed and dedicated people.
Confused?
Recently someone wrote to me and headed the email ‘Confused!’ They expressed a lack of clarity about the future of Newfrontiers, which I understood. We are in a process. My good friend Colin Baron recently used a helpful analogy. Like a river, we know where we are headed, but if you take a short snapshot of a portion of that river it may look as if it is going in the wrong direction at any particular time due to the ‘meanders’ it executes.
My reply was not a definitive statement, but may help to bring some clarity if you also feel unclear:
In a nutshell, Terry has been founder and father of Newfrontiers for 30 years. He is 72 and we have been working on transition for over 3 years following a deliberate timetable. Now is the time to begin implementing. Biblically we feel that apostolic spheres are the way to advance the Kingdom (Terry spoke on this in 2009 at TOAM) and so we have not looked for an individual to take over from him as successor but that there should be a network of apostolically lead spheres defined by relationship, not geography. David Devenish is going to coordinate combined international initiatives.
Prophetically we feel that Terry still has much to do through equipping our own men who have emerging and extant apostolic gifting, and also in helping other streams. Together we are called to advance the Kingdom, not just as one family of churches. Terry will not carry executive responsibility for the family of Newfrontiers which will continue as a network of apostolic spheres.
A number of you will know the above team personally. So what of their futures?
Our History
When Terry formed his first apostolic Team in September 1980 he invited me to join him as his administrator. ‘I don’t know what an administrator does but I know I need one’. I responded ‘I don’t know either - but “yes!”‘.
On this inauspicious foundation Newfrontiers came into being. For the first three years we were called Coastlands, from a verse in Isaiah, ‘the coastlands wait expectantly for your instruction’, referring to the ends of the earth. However, the name changed as people interpreted it geographically - the south coast of UK since Terry lived in Hove. And so the Hove office was born - although it was ‘virtual’ for some time, Terry and I each working from our homes.
Adrian Willard joined us in 1984 and was instrumental in shaping much of the ‘structure’ of Newfrontiers in the early days, overseeing the finances, bringing excellence to all aspects of Communication and, in the late ‘90s, leading the Management Team of the Stoneleigh Bible Week. In 1987 Janis Peters moved to Hove from Catford (London) and in 2000 Jan Mitchell joined the staff.
More recently, Georgina (‘George’) Earey, Spike and Josie Milligan, and Becky Tuson have been on staff, the successors to an amazing cohort of wonderful, committed staff who over the years have served the mission of Newfrontiers with grace and excellence, always willing to go ‘the extra mile’.
Our Future
So what are we each doing from now on?
Terry and Wendy have already moved to Kingston. From there they will travel nationally and internationally teaching, encouraging, mentoring and ‘apostling’. Terry expects to have extended time both within and outside Newfrontiers contexts, helping to build up apostolic ministry and to influence other movements and streams.
Adrian will be doing Marketing consultancy for 3 days each week and hoping for continued involvement with the disadvantaged possibly in the UK.
Janis is excited about the future and is waiting on God with Malcolm to see what plans He has for them. She and Malcolm have sons with their families in South Africa and are considering living there part-time. They will explore this option when they go there for two months in March.
Jan will be joining her husband in ‘retirement’ and, being a very ‘people person’, will almost certainly be quickly involved in her local community and the church in Eastbourne.
George has worked part time with Adrian for many years and her heart is to continue to do so. She is waiting to see if this will be possible once Adrian has clarity about his future.
Spike wishes to remain involved with communication and is planning to work with another member of CCK to provide a service of design and technological support for websites and associated communications activities.
Josie has been working part time in the office of CCK since the summer and will join their full-time staff in January.
Becky has just given birth to Zachariah! Her future is probably to be determined by this chuckling little bundle!
For myself, I will continue to minister in the area of my passion - helping those who are poor and disadvantaged. I hope to continue serving various apostolic spheres both internationally and within the UK. I will also serve in my home church, CCK.
Recently I was interviewed. You may like to hear about my hopes and expectations
All at the Hove Office have greatly enjoyed relationships with men and women around the world. We have enjoyed working together with you in God’s mission for our generation. May He bless you all as you continue to serve Him. We will be watching from the sidelines cheering you on!
The most severe crisis of drought and famine that has been faced by the Horn of Africa for over half a century has now been impacting several nations for over one year. Our involvement with churches in Kenya has enabled a crisis fund, currently standing at £230,000, to be channelled direct to places of the most severe need through this network of churches in the tribal semi-arid desert regions of Samburu and Turkana. Particularly it has been possible to meet people’s needs in their communities thus removing the added trauma of having to relocate to Relief Camps with all the attendant challenges and risks.
Recently Edward Buria, who brings oversight to the Newfrontiers churches in Kenya, spoke to us on video. Through this you will see that rain has now come and planting has been able to take place. It is anticipated that there are now only another 2-3 months for which it will be necessary to supply food while the crops grow.
Building dams
By Easter it is hoped to complete all the small dams that have been started (sand dams and pan dams) so that the water that comes in the rainy seasons (typically April and November) can be trapped; in an average year this totals only 350mm so every drop has great value.
Christmas Offering?
About £150,000 is still needed to accomplish this. Maybe you could consider a Christmas offering. You can donate online at Virgin Giving or cheques can be sent, payable to Newfrontiers and marked Kenya Crisis Fund, to:
The Finance Team
Newfrontiers
The Matrix Complex
91 Peterborough Road
London, SW6 3BU
Tags: Famine, Kenya, Poor, Relief and Development
Initiator/Responder
Continuing our ‘pairs’ of personality characteristics we will now consider the Initiator/Responder. This pairing is close to, but not identical with, Creator/Implementer. The Initiator is someone who wants to get on with the task in hand and is not frightened to take initiative. He or she will be willing to take the lead if there is no appointed leader. He will be peaceful about making decisions and taking responsibility for the consequences.
The Responder is waiting for a leader but will then serve faithfully. He is secure in a team framework and is not looking for personal profile or recognition (though a bit of encouragement always helps!).
A few years ago three couples in my local church approached the eldership to seek permission to start a ‘soup kitchen’ for those who were street homeless in our town. We were happy for them to do so as they had a good track record in related ministries. Once this was public news another 40 people identified themselves as wanting to get involved! These 40 had been waiting for Initiators to be identified so that they could respond and fulfil their passion to serve in this way.
Sprinter/Long-distance Runner
Have you noticed how in the Olympics sprinters start from blocks while long distance runners are standing up when the starting gun is fired? In the church some people have huge amounts of pent up energy waiting to be released and, when the opportunity arises they let it out in a burst. However, a few weeks later they may no longer be involved. Meanwhile there are others who serve faithfully week after week with dedicated energy, tenacity and faithfulness. They are the ‘slow burners’ who are able to keep going and feel fulfilled in doing so.
To recognise this distinction is important. When, as a leader, you wish to delegate or mobilise someone it is vital to match the task to the personality. To give a ‘sprinter’ a task which requires a steady and sustained pace will lead to frustration for both of you. Similarly, don’t give a long-distance runner a task that requires high energy to get it going.
Knowledge/Process
The final pairing that is worth considering differentiates between those who have an overall knowledge and experience of a situation or set of criteria, and those who apply themselves to the detail. To have those in a team who are able to ‘stand back’ from the minutiae of an activity and bring an overview is a powerful way of developing strategy. But to lack those who can take that overview and interpret it through reliable and efficient processes of planning and implementation may result only in discussion and theorising without practical application.
The pairings I have suggested are deliberately somewhat simplistic. There is inevitable overlap between some of the particular characteristics. However, to recognise that we are all different and to give each other permission to contribute from those differences without feeling threatened or vulnerable brings significant strength to a team.
Next time I want to show you a video update on the Kenya famine which is still very serious. Some may like to consider a Christmas offering. After that we shall look at the final section of this series on Teams, how members can support one another.
